DicksonAbuse2
TO: Officer Paige and Chief Erskine, Stonington Police 173
South Broad Street, Stonington, CT
CC: Drs Ruffner, New London, CT, 410 Montauk Avenue, New
London, CT
CC: Atty Peter Bartinik, Jr, 100 Fort Hill Road, Groton, CT
CC: AAG James Kelly, Renee Knapp, DCF, One Thames Street,
Norwich, CT
CC: DCF, Atty Sarah Gibson, DCF One Long Wharf Drive, New
Haven CT.
CC: AAG Thomas Ryan, 55 Elm Street, Hartford, CT
CC: AG Richard Blumenthal, 55 Elm Street, Hartford, CT
CC: Congressman Rob Simmons, One Thames Street, Norwich, CT
CC: Atty Joseph Wilson Social Security Law Group
PO Box 353, Randolph, MA, 02368-0353
CC: Sam T. Donta, MD, 88 East Newton Street Boston, MA
02118
CC: Naugatuck Police Chief Dennis Clisham
211 Spring Street, Naugatuck, CT 06770
Re: Donald G. Dickson 61 High Street, Naugatuck, CT
Dear Officer Paige and Chief Erskine,
Regarding incident 2003000005900 (attached).
This was not a custody dispute as recorded.
I called the police because Donald G. Dickson was being
belligerent and would not leave my property.
I apologize for not remembering the Divorce Agreement
formally; My recollection was that it was the Standard. But at the time the
Agreement was written Don Dickson was relatively jobless and homeless. Our
agreement now is generally, the common, the reasonable (why it is a standard),
and that is, alternating weekends, and he sees them Wednesday nights when he can
get out here from Stratford. He is now employed by Sikorsky.
It was NOT Don’s weekend to take the kids, as he had
had them the week before.
Don’s living circumstances were a problem for the first few
years after we were divorced, because Don had gotten himself fired and then
refused to look for work for a year. He is a tech-writer, instructed several
employees in this, and wrote a primer on RPSTL, yet he got himself fired for
poor work performance. He lived in rented rooms most of the time before he went
to Kentucky for a year, and was not able to take the kids (a good thing,
overall, because they were younger and could not describe what goes on over
there).
As I explained to Officer Paige, we do not make a big
production over the formalities. At the present time, we decide with what is
best for the kids and based on what they want. At least I do.
It was my understanding and recollection that the
visitation was as per the normal, as we discussed with the lawyers at the time
of the divorce. Alternating weekends and every Wednesday night, but Don was not
able to provide that most of the time, until the last few years (Divorce, final
Jan 1995). I recollected that it was recorded this way, because this was the
choice we had agreed upon with the lawyers, but then it was changed because of
Don’s living arrangements (he was renting a room in a man’s house), but also
because this suited me, since I never wanted to leave the kids alone with him,
and the reason there are 3 kids instead of one. All the lawyers I talked to
after he abused the one, told me I would never get sole custody and supervised
visitation. Theregore I stayed married, to protect the kid(s) on the weekends
For these reason it was recorded in the divorce not as anything strict.
The kids were to go with Don that weekend, May 2, 2003,
although it was not Don’s weekend, and he had had them the weekend before. It
was okay with me, however, plans changed, as I wrote to Don Dickson and my
Sister, MaryJane Schade, that the kids would be staying home instead and working
around the house, as punishment for not doing their homework, and for rude
behavior when company was present during the week, that Friday morning.
Don Dickson has been abusive to me, since the very
beginning of our marriage. We saw Drs Ruffner (Ellin and David) in New London
for Marriage Counseling, David Ruffner, MD, told me Don was a sociopath. He
said, “Kathleen, I can’t fix your husband for you. Your husband
is a sociopath. Sociopaths are born that way. They stay that way.” Ruffner
then loaned me a book entitled. “Sociopathy.” I most certainly then, did not
hesitate in the direction of a divorce, since when I read that description in
that book, every page of it described Don Dickson. The other name for Sociopath
is Anti-Social Personality Disorder. He is also a recovering alcoholic.
I have had numerous incidents with Don being violent, and
that was why I divorced him. He punched me, literally threw me out of the
house, kicked the dogs down the stairs, threw the dogs across the room (which
Don thought was a fun thing, but we all thought was weird), threw Lara at me
TWICE, when she was a month old… on and on and on…
Until I could not take it any more, and he decided to get
himself fired and stay home with the three babies without telling me. NO WAY.
He was arrested for violence, for throwing
me
across the livingroom TWICE, in the Summer if 1993, as I was on my way to
Lawrence and Memorial Hospital to have a Lyme disease test performed on our
daughter Lara. All three children have congenital Lyme disease. (EVIDENCE is on
my website: See the Schoen page:
http://www.actionlyme.com/Schoen.htm (Lara’s Lyme test and the date
(8/13/93) are there) and also the
http://www.actionlyme.com/STONINGTON_SCHOOLS.htm Stonington Schools page
(Stonington Schools not cooperating, and behaving ignorantly, regarding my
daughter Diane’s 504 Education Plan).
While I was sick and living with Don Dickson, he told me to
just shut up about my illness, “No one wants to hear about it.”
I had to stay at the Battered Women’s Shelter in New
London, just once, because I could not stay there, and perform the housework the
Shelter required, while I had two small children. I could not leave them alone
in the room with the two cribs the Women’s Shelter gave me, so that arrangement
was a little ridiculous, and not well thought-out by the Women’s Shelter. My
boss at Pfizer, Jason Dennis (BLDG 257) referred me to the Employees Assistance
Program (EAP) 5/16/2003 because I had to miss work to make that arrangement,
where I spoke with a counselor named JoEllen Sayjek..
I had to garnish Don’s paycheck, because he would not pay
child support. Don lied to me about his drugs and where he was going to get
them (Tony Rubino, in Yonkers), he lied to me about his previous bankruptcy, he
lies about everything. He lied to the Support Enforcement Judge about income
from another source, his business, ProVision Video. It was NOT his weekend to
take the kids, but I was letting them go anyway, and I sent Don an email saying
I changed my mind, and the kids were staying with me, and I copied my sister,
MaryJane Schade, who sent a copy of the email, confirming it was received.
The next time I request of the Stonington Police to please
intervene, I hope they will again do so, and record the event correctly. I
cannot get permanent protection from this sociopath until the children are all
over age 18, and he HAS to be out of my life. Unfortunately he is their
father, and there is nothing that can be done about that other than what I am
doing.
Don Dickson was violent to David, who was 5 at the time, at
Chuckie Cheese’s in New London. He held David down in the car by his throat,
and David said,”I thought he was trying to kill me.” This is very traumatizing
to a child, as everyone knows. When I came out of Chuckie Cheeses, David was in
the back seat of the car, and his face was literally purple from screaming and
crying and terror. This is recorded in the Department of Children and
Families notes from Janurary 31, 2002, when my Psychiatrist called the DCF FOR me, since I could not get help from the DCF in the past, when I asked
them, because of my illness. (EVIDENCE) I had made the mistake of thinking the
DCF was a CHILD WELFARE AGENCY, which is how they list themselves in the Blue
Pages of the Phone book, and as Assistance Attorney General Tom Ryan is well
aware.
In the Fall of 1996 I was too sick to take care of
the kids, and no one would help me. I asked my sister Nancy Martin, who has no
kids and is a Marriage and Family Therapist, and she said, “Well, what else can
we do for you?” Meaning NO.
The DCF said I made too much money and would not subtract
the daycare costs as that was not theirn policy. So, they also said NO.
(EVIDENCE).
Now the kids are bigger. And I am no longer face down,
stuck to the carpet and unable to move an inch for an hour at a time from Lyme
disease, like I was in the Fall of 1996, and the kids were 5, 3 and 1
year old. Should anything happen to me, the children should not go with Don
Dickson, I repeat, and as I said formally, January 31, 2002, to the Department
of Children and Families, who already have hard copies of Don Dickson’s abuse
history.
The agreement for visitation is by mutual, general, and
reasonable agreement, the standard agreement, alternating weekends with their
father, and every Wednesday night, although at the time the divorce was written,
Don would not take the children because of his living arrangements, and neither
could he take them for a year, while he lived in Kentucky. We have been
flexible about it since he came back from Kentucky. I believe this was 1997 to
1998, because it was at that time that I asked the DCF again for help, and
Lorraine Thomas of the Norwich DCF told me on the phone, that I was not eligible
for their Respite program (I was sick, remember, with Lyme, which is like a
Chronic flu) because I, “Would need like, an abusive, drug abusing
boyfriend in there, beating you up all the time.”
My Lyme friends thought that was funny, and
volunteered for the job of beating me up, so I could get help from the DCF.
Where there is an opportunity to be flexible on the
visitation, I always am, with the exception of this incident, for the reasons I
explained to Officer Paige. I don’t want the kids to suffer the extra burden of
their parents being separated, and I do not lay a guilt trip on the kids, if
they want to go with Don for a weekend, as he does, in the reverse situation. I
know for a fact, because they tell me what he says to them., which is typically
manipulative of Don Dickson, the Sociopath.
On the very same day, earlier in the day, coincidentally,
5/2/02, earlier in the day, I tried to contact the Stonington Police per the
advice of the Department of Justice and the FBI regarding the Fraud and
Corruption of the CDC, as described on my website. Both the Chief and I agreed
that this was not a case for the local Law Enforcement, and the DOJ was
mistaken.
It is now being looked into by Congressman Simmons Office
in Washington, as I spoke with Simmons’ Chief of Staff, Todd Mitchell, and
explained that the Director of the Office of Research Integrity, of the
Department of Heakth and Human Services told me to inform Attorney General John
Ashcroft about this problem. The case is on my website:
http://www.actionlyme.com See RICO, and then the rest of the links follow
the ”story”.
I personally have been denied Social Security Disability
because my IQ is too high (I was an analytical methods development chemist for
Pfizer, until Lyme disease made it impossible for me to work). My Performance
IQ is VERY SUPERIOR, which almost never happens in a female, unless it is
autism, which it is, and have been so diagnosed by my former Psychiatrist James
Phillips, in Milford, CT. He has been in possession of this Evaluation from the
approximately the Summer of 2000. Also, I saw this Psychiatrist when I was a
College Chemistry Major (with Concentrations in Biology and Scientific
Programming), for my own childhood abuse sequelae, as he has recorded to Social
Security Law Group. Performance IQ is weighed greater in intelligence, because
it is the ability to integrate visual spatial elements into a working dynamic.
It is the exact opposite of a thought disorder or tangential thinking. When I
became too forgetful and sick Pfizer, to run my own projects, I just fixed and
calibrated instruments, until I just had to leave, due to the
illness effects.
I hope for protection from the Police, the next time I call
for it. Now you have the evidence that I am not CRYING WOLF. My IQ is more
than two standard deviations above average. That MEANS, most people don’t know
what I am talking about. It should be clear, now, that this may be difficult to
perceive: Two standard deviations away from normal, on the “Mechanically
Inclined” Scale. Atypical for females.
Unfortunately, the failure of the Psychiatrist to
adequately treat my Autism in the early 80s (the way to treat Autism is to treat
the family, since Autism cannot be “cured”), resulted in my marrying this
Sociopath, Don Dickson, since I believed everything he said.
I also believed everything the Psychiatrist said.
Fortunately the objective data speaks for itself.
Autistic people don’t understand lying and never suspect
it, because High Functioning Autism is an ORDER, rather than a DISORDER, of the
mind. Naturally, I became an analytical chemist; precisely the domain of the
Autistic mind, an analytical practice of Science. Other people appear
disordered to us, and that is the hardship we suffer. “Never terrorize an
autistic child”, is the advice given to parents, currently. None of my
children are autistic this, although there are signs that David (8) is gufted,
and surely :Lara is very sensitive and a gifted artist.
You now have verification. Please don’t fail to protect me
and my children from Don Dickson, or believe a word he says. Obviously no one
needs more, protection, than an autistic person. We don’t have it in us, the
capability deceit, as evidenced by my marrying a sociopath, and believing
everything he said. High functioning Autism, also makes us excellent parents.
My children all do well in school, and in science, of course.
These are MY minor children, because I
protected them from Don Dickson, I get them the medical help they need, although
it has been extraordinarily difficult politically, I have to fight with the
schools to get what they are entitled to, I have to take them out of the State
for Specialists, and when I was as sick as a dog and I asked everyone for
help, I was denied. No parent has greater rights, therefore, and this nonsense
is going to stop. I want protection from Don Dickson, the next time I need it.
I am NOT CRYING WOLF. Ask David Dickson. Ask his other former wives, who lasted
5 months and 11 months with this guy, and who were smarter than me.
I am available through my website or at
kmdickson@comcast.com, or at
Kathleen.Dickson@snet.net I advocate for Lyme Disease and Autism, and
bring the data as the platform, as evidenced by my INDICES OF PATHOLOGY
tables on the ActionLyme website.
Thank you sincerely,